Dear Doctor Lover,

I have been dating a guy for a while and he is very good to me and I know I will not find anyone like him! The issue is their are days I truly love him and some days I don't. Its like I don't feel it! And distance is separating us. I live 4 hours away from him, and when I see him I feel it. I really don't know what's wrong with me... and I don't want to hurt at all? And I start questioning myself about the relationship... help me.

Sincerely, lucy

Dear lucy,

Sounds like the feelings that you have for this guy are only there when you are either around him or speaking to him. This is normal in many relationships. However, it isnt a good thing as it may cause you to cheat and have desires for other men. The fact is that there isnt much you can do about it in order to fix it. You will either need to find a way to love him without him being there or you may have to find another relationship with someone you love even without their presence. There is nothing wrong with you.

~Doctor Lover