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I am a 33-year-old woman who hasn't been in a relationship in over 9 years. I have dated several guys during this period but nothing serious ever comes of it. The reason being is a strange one. I have been told on several occasions that I am too good for him. I don't quite understand what that means. I am a laid back easygoing woman. I live a pretty simple life I've never been married and I have no kids. I am very giving and I don't mind doing things for my man and yet I cant seem to find one who feels that he's good enough for me. Is it something that I'm doing that makes these men feel this way. I am totally lost and needing advice. Please help.
Sincerely, Looking for love but its hiding from me
Dear Looking for love but its hiding from me,
This is a great question that you have and it's really hard to answer. I understand that you have heard many times that "it's not you, its me" statement. This seems like its one of those cases where its not you, it's the men with the issues. There is no real way to catch a man or to attract a man. Men are different on a case-by-case bases and it seems as if the men that you are going out with just aren't the ones for you. If you are being told that you are too good for them, then it may mean just that. What this means is that most men don't have their stuff together and they become afraid to commit to a woman who does. A man never wants to feel as though he's less accomplished than his woman. Unfortunately most of them look for dumb-downed women with issues. This allows them to think that they have something to offer. Nonetheless, don't allow this knowledge to make you settle.
In addition, it could be something else in which is drawing them away. They may not like your look. Your conversation. Your wardrobe style. Your education. Your religion. Etc. The next time or even now, if you are still in contact with these men that you dated, you can ask them to be honest on what it is that is turning them off.
In a nutshell, there may be nothing that you can do about it besides figure it out by going directly to the source.
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amor kiya2011-02-03 22:33
this is a great question but most times when a man say "you're to good for me" it's because they have some insicurities with-in themselves. It's nothin that your doing wrong but next time around you can still be fun and loving but with a little twist. Every oonce in a while its okay to show him that if he isnt there another man would be more than happy to have you.
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