Dear Doctor Lover,

I met a girl and we instantly clicked with each other. I've known her for 3 months now and we have even made out. I told her about my feelings towards her and she said she fancys me too but she isnt ready for a relationship yet because she broke up with her ex 1 yr ago out of a 4 yr relationship. She said she just wants to be real close friends.

So I really like her and want to be with her but she just wants a friendship, nothing more. She did say, who knows about the future. And for some reason I cant get her out of my mind. I think i'm falling for her. Shes unique in every way.

But recently she has stopped talking to me, for some reason. The entire closeness and the friendship is slowly disappearing. Shes stopped coming around to my place, she doesnt talk to me as much as she used to and I'm really confused at the moment. I really miss her and cant stop thinking about her. She isnt that close to me anymore.

How can I win her friendship back?  Really miss her.

Please can you give me advice to get us close together?

Thank you.

Sincerely, Awais Ahmed