Dear Doctor Lover,

She only sees me as a friend. How can I change that? We have kissed and spent time together and we have a great chemistry now we have gone out twice with common friends and its like we have never crossed the friends line. But when she hugs me or kisses me, such passion comes out. Is there anything to do or just let time pass?

Sincerely, Jose

Dear Jose,

In your situation, you should try and ask her what she thinks about you. Let her know that you like her and ask her if she could ever see herself with you. At this point, you can either continue to live in your "whatif" world of hopes and dreams, or you can get answers. Now is the time to take the next step. You should either call her or speak with her face-to-face and get to know her better and then let her know your true feelings.

~Doctor Lover