Dear Doctor Lover,

I am in love with my best friend of 6 years. I told her I liked her at school but she dismissed my feelings until last november when she admitted she likes me too. I asked her out but she said she doesnt want a relationship because people think bad etc. I said never mind and agreed we can be friends and spend time. She said she loves me and wants to marry me, and she mentioned that it became official in her eyes when she told me she likes me. Over the phone everything is perfect but the problem is she totally avoids seeing me. She never makes time. She makes excuses, Ive confronted her time and time again. I cried in front of her telling her how much I love her. Ive poured my heart out to her several times. She doesnt even have a reason for it. She says I cant explain and dont start. In 6 years Ive spent about 6 hours in her company. Shes all talk. The past month has been awful and I dont know what to do. Ive done everything I can.  

Sincerely, Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

From the sound of it, you should just leave this girl alone. She doesnt seem as though she wants to be with you. i know that you may be in love, but she clearly isnt. If she were, she would treat you better than this. She wouldnt make you cry and wouldnt avoid spending time with you. Dont waste your time. Stop trying to figure out something that has no forward solution. If she loved you and wanted to marry you, she would treat you better. 
I agree that you have done everything you could have done. After telling her and crying in front of her and still nothing being done on her part, then there isnt anything left for you to do. 

~Doctor Lover