Dear Doctor Lover,

My girlfriend has that old boyfriend keep calling her never stopping and sending her messages on the phone. I talked to him and he stopped for a while but then he called her again and sent a message saying I want to talk to you just one last time and he called her a slut. My girl said she has to talk to him one last time but I asked her not to. I begged her to not call him and to let me talk to him. But she said, "no, I will talk to him. I do not care if you want to leave me just leave me." Please tell me what to do...

Sincerely, George Mattew

Dear George Mattew,

There doesnt seem like much you can do to prevent this from happening. You have tried to express your feelings by telling her that you didnt want her to talk with him and she didnt listen. She has already stated that she doesnt care what you want. Because she said this, you don't have any say and your feelings clearly don't matter to her. Your only choice is to leave her alone or to stay and say nothing. Putting your foot down isnt much of an option. 

~Doctor Lover