There is this guy named Darren, he really loves me and I love him too but if we had a relationship would it work out? Cause he's 20 and i'm 15 but I really do like him. He's a really down to earth man and we both have the same maturity level. We have never met in real life we met over a site called urbanchat but we have been talking for about a month now and he's fallen madly in love with me and now he's talking about me having his kids and being with each other forever
Sincerely, Tamyla marie nelms
Dear Tamyla marie nelms,
I do understand that you have fallen in love with this man. However, legally you two aren't allowed to date nor have intimate chats online. If you are truly in love with him, you may have to let him go for now until you are 18. That is of course if you live in the U.S. Nonetheless, I believe the best thing that you can do right now is just wait and see what happens. It takes time to get to know someone and you have lots of time to do just that. You haven't known him that long, and in that case you don't truly know who he is. I know that this is something that you may have not wanted to hear, however, being that you have only spoken online and possibly on the phone, you have a lot more to learn about him. My suggestion is to take your time and be friends, but don't rush into any relationship just yet. Only time will tell if he is the right one for you or not.
