Dear Doctor Lover,

Is it considered cheating if my me and my girlfriend got in a argument, and later that night she started talking to my best friend crying to him on the phone looking for attention and to be cheered up? She denied everything and lied to my face multiple times and did it over 3 times.

Sincerely, minato

Dear minato,

That's a good question. In my opinion, I would consider it cheating mainly because she was holding secrets with another man. The fact is that if your woman is holding conversations and secrets with this other man, then she has shown more respect for him than she has for you. While it may seem simple and innocent to her, the fact is that she went to another man to solve you and her issues. That's not the answer. My suggestion is to educate her on why you are upset about her actions and ask her not to do it again and see where that answer gets you.

~Doctor Lover