Dear Doctor Lover,

I was looking at my boyfriends phone the other day and saw dirty text messages between him and another woman. I asked him about them and he said they were innocent text messages. He said that he was trying to get her going because she blew him off for a date a long time ago. I'm emotionally devastated and he says I have no reason to be. What should I do?

Sincerely, Melly

Dear Melly,

You have a good reason to be upset. What he did was wrong. While I would love to give you a stop or go response, I cant. My only suggestion is to keep watching him and looking at his text messages to see if it continues. If you want an even better answer and you feel bold, I would recommend contacting the other woman to see who she is, how he got her number and what her relationship is with your man.

~Doctor Lover