Dear Doctor Lover,

If I want to remain celibate until marriage, will I find a guy who is willing to wait?

Sincerely sherice,

Dear Sherice,

To answer your question. There is no guarantee on what kind of guy you will find. If you did or didn't want to remain celibate, you'll still have to deal with whatever type of man you run in to. However, if a man isn't willing to wait, then he isn't a man that you need to be with. It isn't and shouldn't be his decision to make. If you want to wait, then that is all that matters. Most men are going to try, but you have to stay strong and keep those legs closed no matter what the situation or what sweet words he speaks in your ears or how he caresses your body ever so gently. Some men will wait and have no problem, but most will at least try to get some. However, just because they are trying doesn't mean that you have to give in. when they try, you need to try a little harder. Men will only go as far as you allow them.

~Doctor Lover