Dear Doctor Lover,

I dated this guy a year ago. The relationship did not last long maybe a couple months or maybe less. He broke up with me because he said that he did not love me and that the only person that he had loved was his first girlfriend who he dated for a long time but he got hurt. He said that I was a wonderful girl inside and out but that he was afraid of getting hurt. A few months ago we started hanging out and ended up making out. This has been going on since then. I thought this was my second chance with him but he said he still was not ready for a relationship but that he was trying and all he needed was time. I feel like I have given him more than enough time and that I have showed him that what I feel for him is real. Every time I see him we end up making out. However sometimes we do not talk for days and most of the time I am the one talking to him. I feel really bad when this happens because I feel like I give him a lot and I probably shouldn't. When I ask him why he has not talked to me, he says he is busy with work and other stuff. I feel like he just wants to keep me around because he is physically attracted to me. I already talked to him about this but he said that it is not like that and that he is just not ready yet. Is it possible that he is still not ready for a relationship or he just doesnt want something serious with me. Should I talk to him about this again or should I just let things go without talking about it

Sincerely, second chance or not