Dear Doctor Lover,

I recently developed a romantic interest for my doctor. I'm 21 years old and in a relationship... My doctor appears to be in his 30's and appears to be married. But I can't help feeling this way. Every time I see him which is often ( once a week, he's my oncologist so I see him a lot.) I want to tell him how I feel about him but I'm not sure if I should... I think he likes me too, but I'm not sure...I need advice deciding whether I should tell him how I feel..

Sincerely, sassylibra

Dear sassylibra,

To answer your question, I don't believe that you should say anything to your doctor about how you feel. Firstly, the doctor is married and you shouldn't want to be that "home wrecker" that broke his marriage up. You also mention that you are in a relationship, you need to work on making sure that your relationship is stronger than what it is before you try to fix it by going outside of it. From the looks of it, it seems that you may just have a crush on your doctor and nothing more. It happens, you may find him attractive, but it doesn't mean that you need to take that any further. He may also find you attractive, which is why you believe he likes you, but I doubt that he has plans to leave his wife or cheat outside of his marriage. And if he does, then you need to ask yourself is that the type of man that you want to be with.

From what I see here, it seems as though you have a crush on your doctor and he talks nice to you and looks at you sweetly. This is just what doctors do. They look you in the eyes, smile at you and touch you softly. If you believe that he's a good doctor, then you need to keep your emotions tucked inside so that you don't lose him as a doctor.

~Doctor Lover