Hello ayesha, didnt get your age, but if your really young then disregard what im about to say! However if youre 25 to 35 take it in,! Im keeping it real unlike the doctor!, First of all your a woman and might be attractive, so guys are going to holla at you! Now I understand your approach to marriage,- no sex before marriage- however in todays society it aint gonna happen! First you have to understand how men think, there are men who are punks and there are real men!A punk would give you the story you want to hear, a real man like me is going to keep it real! First, im not marrying no woman without first testing the goods, or how she performs in bed, or if she a clean and tidy person or not, or if she can satisfy my needs, and its not all sexual! MOst men today who marry there partners , have alreay had sex with them- this might be a major deciding factor in marrying a person! If i know what im getting, im more incline to purchase it! I compare marriage to the relationship between a man and his car! First thing he sees is the body , then he looks at the engine , interior , then finally the test drive, its only after that, he's going to purchase that car! Dont you think, if you're going to make a life investment you should know what your purchasing! well its the same with marriage. If you're going to tell a guy that ,theres no sex before marriage 99% of them will decline that leaves you with 1% and out of that one percent 0.8 are gay! With saying that. the ratio of women to men, is about 15 to 1..Now tell me where you going to find yourself a man! Do the formula !exactly NOWHERE..Look times have changed you have to adapt to your enviroment- i dont know your age but if your 25 - 35 hopefully in the lower age bracket. Do yourself a favour and get with the times! Or before you know it ,you'll be over child-bearing age, dont waste your youthful age hoping for the perfect prince charming to come alone! Try to find yourself a good man , someone you love and really trust and feel would do right by you, and take a shot - while you still have your youth, because the longer you wait the more your prospect goes down! Dont wait so long that ,you'll have to settle for anything, that comes along!, In fear of dying single ,unmarried and alone! There alot of people who talk shit , BUT REALITY IS -BEING ALONE SUCKS-
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hey how are you ayesha. I understand how you feel girl I be feeling that same exact way sometimes but you should look at it like this whatever your religion is keep on obeying buy it and you will be blessed. You need patience like me and I know how hard it is to have patience at times. I understand your young but u still want to have somebody right? Well the guy you met up with at the train station you said you guys text and talked some then you all met up one night and yaw was kissin. Well think about the position you put urself in. How long did it take for him to kiss u? how long did u know him before you kissed him? you should look at things like this because if you don't then guys are `going to think that ur easy and if you don't want guys to look at you for your body then don't be so quick to kiss them even though you want to or don't be so quick to let them get there way. Your very vulnerable and when were vulnerable we often make decisions off our emotions which is not always a good idea. Because we more than likely always hurt ourselves in the end.