Dear Doctor Lover,

I like this girl who attends the same college as me. We dated once before and on our second date I made a mistake and called her a hoe. She forgave me for it and we still speaks but its never like it was. I really like this girl and want in my life. how do i get her back?

Sincerely, joris chatman

Dear joris chatman,

I have no clue how you can really like someone and then call them a hoe. However, to answer your question, what you need to do is sit down with her and talk with her about the situation. Let her know that you really do enjoy your time with her and that you are truly apologetic about what you said. Ask her for her thoughts and feelings on the situation and then ask if you can both move on from what happened. Also mention how you feel uncomfortable because you know things havent been the same since it happened.     

~Doctor Lover