Mr. Yes Man? In a nutshell Mr. Yes man is that man the does all of the right things before he gets into your paints. He'll open up doors for you, kiss you in all the right places, buy you anything you want and when he can't he'll explain gently why he can't, but how he will one day. Mr. Yes man will let you know that he doesn't trust easy and that all he needs is a good woman like you and he can love again.

But who is this man really? He's the best game player that there is. You won't ever have to worry about him not calling you, being there for you or showing you off in public. He knows what he is doing and he'll continue to do this along ever base until he makes it to the home plate where Mr. No Man is waiting.

I'm writing this article to warn all of you woman of Mr. No Man. This is the man that you don't want. While Mr. Yes Man - does, Mr. No Man - does not. He won't call you, he'll argue with you at every chance he gets, doors stop getting opened and the end result is that you'll wonder what the hell happened to Mr. Yes Man who was there at the beginning before he scored the home run.

Why am I writing this article? I had a friend just contact me about how an Ex of hers just contacted her and even after the troubling relationship she had with him, it all seems fine now because Mr. Yes Man came back. In my mind - of course he's going to come back.

So, how do you keep Mr. Yes Man around? Simple. Don't let him score a home run. He can get to third base, but the moment his "foot" touches home - Mr. No Man comes out.

Wait until Mr. Yes Man is so embedded in his head, that is when you can let him score that home run. He needs practice on the other bases first. Let him hit a couple of grounders and score a couple of outs first. Let him get used to wining and dining you. Let him find ease in listening and understanding your needs as a woman and a person. Let him give you four-play until he gets it just right.

That's the way to prevent Mr. No Man from breaking your relationship apart. Because, without practice, Mr. Yes Man will only last as long as you can.

~Doctor Lover