Dear Doctor Lover,

I am very confused. There is a guy that I love with all of my heart and he knows it. I am trying to be strong but it is very hard because he works 13 or more hours a day and it seems that the only time we get to talk to each other is on the weekend. He shows me that he loves me by the text he sends me and what we talk about on the phone and what we dream about. He is 31 and I am 20. Should I stay with him or leave.

Sincerely, Kayla

Dear Kayla,

In a nutshell, your man has a wife or a girlfriend and you are his chick on the side. I'm sure I'm not the first to tell you this. If you stay in this relationship, you aren't doing anything but setting yourself up for failure. Good luck.

~Doctor Lover