Dear Doctor Lover,

I am really confused I met a guy 2months back. I made the first move by approaching him and instantly we clicked and a week later he asked for my number. Things progressed and he asked me out and would always text first but the last 2weeks he doesn't text first I have to and the last time i heard from him was last thursday when I had to text first. its been 5days and I doubt he will text first should I take the hint? Im not clingy or anything i know he needs his space like i do but why all of a sudden? its as if i am making the effort. I used to see him regularly on the train and he is amazing in person just dont get why he wont text. Help me out, what should i do?

Sincerely, miss confused

Dear miss confused,

There could be many reasons as to why he isnt contacting you. One is that he may be in trouble. Another is that he may be going through some things emotionally, and another is that he may not want to be with you any longer. The only answer here is to figure out which one that is. Instead of texting, try to call him or email him or visit him if you can. If you havent seen him on the train lately, then he may be in some type of trouble. Try using a different method than just texting and see if you get any results that way.     

~Doctor Lover