Sex has a great deal to do with being a better than good cheater. Men are usually the ones to make the sex, either they are good or they are bad. If you are a man who is good at sex, and you are caught cheating, then you have a greater chance of being caught-up. If the sex in the relationship is bad or obsolete and with no hope for revival, then you have nothing to worry about. Sometimes in relationships like that, your lover is just searching for a way out, and your cheating is the perfect escape. You may think that you hold it down in the bedroom, but when that is not the case, your woman is either with you because you look good, you have money, or that you are just so damn nice and your lover would feel bad if she left you.

On the other hand, if you are holding it down in the bedroom and cheating on your lover, you have nothing to worry about. In this situation, your lover may know through instincts that you are cheating, but they will never say anything because they do not want to lose their Good Dick Supply (G.D.S.). Every woman knows that G.D.S. is hard to find, and when they find it, they are not going to want to let it go. When I say good dick, I mean that top of the line, just right, multiple orgasm, body shaking, barely walking, cannot speak, face-glowing, leave a woman curled up into a ball over in the corner sleeping type of dick. Now, many women do not get this type of action, and the ones who do not are most likely the ones who have never done anything crazy for a man. When the sex is so good that a man can leave you in tears, then the woman is going to want to make sure that no one else can enjoy her G.D.S.

So, how do you upgrade your sex game? Lesson one and the only lesson (same lesson as to cheating); Put yourself into the other person's shoes. If you were your lover, how would you want it? Do not ever be selfish when it comes to the bedroom. It is better to be a giver than a receiver. Most men try to get theirs and forget or just plainly not care that their woman did not get pleased. A good cheater does everything in his or her means to please all of their partners. Selfishness does not exist with a good cheater when it comes to sex.

Some men just cannot perform well in the bedroom, and nothing can be done about it. These are often the men that have fun cheating and take it as a game. These men fool their women into the bedroom with their words. These men are the ones who can get the women, but can never keep them. You can distinguish these men, not by what they say or how they look, but by how fast they try to get you in bed. He tries to be quick because he knows he does not have much to offer and he finds that trying to get to know you would be a waste of his time, because more than likely the woman will end up being disappointed and leave him anyway.

A good cheater is one who does his research before he sleeps with anyone. For all he knows, you may be his woman's best friend or co-worker trying to set him up. A good cheater knows he is good and he does not need to rush anything. When it comes to sex, a good cheater has to make the woman want him. The best way to do that is to make it look like you are not after sex. Women already have the growing knowledge that was passed along from mother to daughter and from daughter to friend that men are all about sex. The last thing that a cheater wants is to be is categorized as "just another man." Women also need to keep in mind that a good cheater is one who is not about the sex. A good successful cheater has women coming at him all day throwing the ass because of his good reputation and him being so cultivated. Therefore, when a woman comes to him in that manner, then he knows that she is most likely "crazy" and a victim of the bad cheaters.

Dating relationships without sex also tend to last longer. Any woman can be hooked on a man because of his sex and it also applies for man to woman. If that is what you want from the relationship, then go for yours. However, if you want more, then make sure that you get more first. Be hooked on him or her spiritually and mentally before physically. Some women like to know what they are getting into before they get serious with a man. They like to know the size of what he has to offer before they go any further. Sex is very important in this 21st century, so that is understandable. There's nothing wrong with foreplay, but if you both want more after that, then make sure that it is real and do not get caught-up in the sex game, which will have you creating a family before a marriage, if any.

In addition, if you are a person who has been dating around and you do not like casual dating, then maybe you should not have casual sex. It is pretty much that simple.