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Love Doctor's Blog
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Monday, 01 February 2010 |
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What is an F.B.? An F.B. is a fuck buddy. This is when two people are together and in a sexual relationship. The two of these people may both be single or both of them may already be involved with someone else. The relationship is simple and shouldn’t get deeper than sex. These two people don’t normally have titles on their relationship. They aren’t considered couples or friends. They simply decide not to know one another outside of the bedroom.
What is F.W.B.? An F.W.B. is a Friend with Benefits. This is when two people are together and in a sexual relationship, but they consider themselves friends. These individuals acknowledge their friendship in public, however both are still considered single and looking. An F.W.B. is good to have around when the libido is craving and you need a quick, carefree, safe, trusting, no boundaries relief from your sexual desires.
You have to be careful with an F.B. because one person may not like the F.B. title or like that the relationship isn’t going anywhere and they may soon want more. Once your F.B. wants more and gets emotions involved, then the F.B. turns into a problem. F.B.’s are great to have around when things aren’t going so well at home. An F.B. could fix the tension at home from the lack of sex or simply the restriction of just being with one person which many people experience.
An F.W.B. is easier to have around because there is an understanding between the two friends. They both understand what the relationship is about and they don’t ask for more. When two friends get involved with one another while one of them has a lover, what are they supposed to do? The problem with wanting to be with a friend is trying to figure out a way to make it work. How can friends remain friends despite them both wanting one another? The simple thing to do when this happens is for the friends to both make a quick decision to stop seeing one another or to stop hanging around one another so much. Either way you look at it, someone is always going to get hurt, especially when friends are involved.
There is nothing wrong with choosing the friend romantically, but something to think about is, how well do you know your friend romantically? Just because a friend knows how to be a friend, does not mean that they know how to be a lover. Not all friends are made for one another.
Overall, F.B.’s don’t have a relationship outside sex, while F.W.B.’s do. F.B.’s and F.W.B.’s are great to have around, but they could end disastrous if feelings and attachments get involved.
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Comments
But, after reading this and really recognizing it! I can not accept those titles! I can not be okay with knowing I have FB or even FWB and they want to go NO where with our relationship...It's POINTLESS!
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