Doctor Lover : Love Doctor

The point of the novel Dr. Lover - Mr. Lies is to state that no one can change or control a man besides something greater than a man or something that a man fears. That someone greater can be God, love or religion and that something that he fears can be... well, many things. The fact is that a man without morals can't TRULY love a woman or dedicate himself to much of anything. The reason for this is that morals create discipline and without discipline your man will never stay faithful or committed. A woman cannot and I repeat cannot change a man! However, she can influence morals. Now, what's the difference? Trying to change someone consist of nagging, yelling or trying to create a change in him through an emotional connection. Those emotions can consist of love, hate, sadness or jealously to name a few. In order to influence a man to change, what needs to be done is you need to create an environment and relationship based on morals, NOT emotions.

Now, some of you may be a bit lost right now, so let me explain a little better.

Once a man finds morals, he finds love, respect and discipline<< now, isn't that all that you want from him?

I've been married for some time now and I still can't say that I'm faithful because I love my wife. The fact is that loving her doesn't control what I do in the relationship. What controls what I do are my morals and beliefs. The reason for this is because in order for me to want to be a better man, I need something perfect to be that influencer. Morals and beliefs are a perfect system and that is only what can control a man.

Morals are what influences love. Love does not influence morals.

The point of this article in a nutshell is that until your man finds morals that he believes in, he will always be unpredictable. He may try, but he will always fail. You may be able to change him for a day, but without morals, he'll find his way back to his old self.

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