Doctor Lover : Love Doctor

Dear Doctor Lover,

I have never done this before, but I guess that it never hurts to try. I am kind of confused about my sexuality. I have always to guys, but now it seems that I am craving for a female. I am only eighteen and I have always been kind of attracted to women but never faced up to it. I do not want to believe the truth myself. I first realized that I like females when I was fifteen. I am not a lesbian—well, I do not think I am—nor do I think that I am straight. I am sexually confused. The crazy thing about this situation is that I have never been with a female or even done anything sexual with a female. Now that I am older, I cannot help but wonder what it would be like to be with a woman. I think that I am now more attracted to girls than I am to guys. My question is should I explore my sexuality with a woman or should I just stay with my heterosexual way?

Sincerely,
Sexually Confused

Dear Sexually Confused,

You seem to already have it figured out what you want to do. Of course, being with a man would be considered the “normal way.” However, if you feel that you are growing attracted to women and want to explore, then go right ahead. You are young and its better to figure it out now rather than later. The last thing that you want to do is get married, have kids and then decide that you want to be with another woman.

~ Doctor Lover