Dear Doctor Lover,
I have been dating this girl for a while now and she's really head over heels for me. The only problem is that I'm not quite sure how I feel about her. There are times when I am totally and completely happy with her and then within a day I have turned 180 degrees and I start questioning the relationship... is this normal? What can I do or what should I do?
Sincerely, Derek
Dear Derek,
There isnt much that you can do besides either keep holding on or let go. Maybe the issue is that you aren't ready to be in a relationship because you haven't yet figured out if you are stable enough. What I mean is that you seem to have other questions in your mind that this female or relationship isn't satisfying. With that, you are likely to cheat on her, break up with her or hurt her in some other manner if you don't get your head corrected. To solve this, you can either try a little harder to love her or find some personal time for yourself to try and calm things down in your head by asking yourself what you really want and if you are ready to be in a relationship. Most people, especially men go through this situation of simply getting tired or irritated with their lover. This mostly happens because either you aren't 100% satisfied with that person or because you aren't happy with yourself. You need to figure out which one it is for you and make your move based on those results.
~Doctor Lover
